Sunday, May 13, 2012


A red rose in remembrance of my mom on this Mother's day.  And my grandmothers, my mother in law, and others who have left us.  Miss them all and know they are all celebrating every day in Heaven.

Wishing everyone a Happy Mother's Day and hope they enjoy it all will family, friends and more.

  I have noted that my postings here and other spaces have slowed to a stop.  Not because I have no thoughts to share, nor because I have not time enough, it's because I just haven't.  No excuses, no apologies, just not doing it.  Maybe my fingers will find time and talent again soon, but until then, enjoy your days, and certainly, enjoy this day and many more as every day is or should be Mother's Day.

I agree with Maxine...

Saturday, April 21, 2012

How Many Years...

April 21, 1979---33 years ago---I walked down the aisle and married a prize of a man!  Four babies, once cancer scare, many moves, and lots of ups and downs...we are still going.  Not bad for a couple of kids from New Jersey.

Happy Anniversary to my hubby...He has work and soccer today. I am away on a short stitching retreat. But we still go home to each other.  Not bad for 33 years.  Smiling with memories.
A red rose for my love


Sunday, February 26, 2012

BessieMary: Blessings

BessieMary: Blessings

Thank you to my friend Jan for this lovely Sunday thought.

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Welcome 2012 - Year of the Dragon


A frozen beach---really?? yes last year on the very tip of  South Jersey..this is what 2011 looked like coming in.  For myself, that is how the year seemed...FROZEN...not warm and nice, but cold and hard.  Farewell 2011...it was not the best of our times.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!! Welcome 2012---this year will hopefully be a better year for all of us. Too many are plagued with unemployment, housing issues, and more.  May we all find warmth and comfort in new beginnings.  

As is my usual style...I have made some goals for myself [resolutions too].  One of which is to blog more regularly, so this post is already hours behind.  But being an oldster, [59 later this month LOL], my late night efforts are few and far between.  Throw in a few celebratory drinks and my brain fizzles and giggles!

Coming later...my escapades and efforts at New Year's treats--Danish Style.

Here is what I hope 2012 memories will look like when it comes to a close in 52 weeks.

Jeremiah 6:16 “Stand at the crossroads and look;
ask for the ancient paths, 
ask where the good way is, and walk in it, 
and you will find rest for your souls.

May 2012 bring us all good rest, good times, 
Health, Happiness and more. 

Also good stitching!! Happy New Year all

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Blessed Joyful Christmas to all

In the stillness of that night, long, long ago....a mother gently swaddles her newborn baby...counting fingers and toes, remarking at the long eyelashes....the dimple here or there..
all moms do it and marvel at the wonder of it all. This is such an ordinarily extraordinary event but so much more that night.
 Mary held God incarnate, Emanuel.
 The savior is born...But on that night, he is just a baby, yet So much more. 
Don't you just wonder at this?
 Merry Christmas friends!


Enjoy a tribute to Mary and her newborn son:


Disclaimer: Thank you to Terry Campbell for these wonderful sentiments.
You put a voice to my heart and soul this Christmas morning.
Mothers and women the world over understand Mary's importance in this world changing event.  
Thank you Google for the images and U-tube for the video.
Mahvelous technical treats! 




Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Holiday Traditions

This blog might have started as a 'Sewing Shoppe' blog for updates, events, happenings, designs and such.  But with the actual shop closed and life taking many u-turns along the way, I am expanding my vision to include many other life things.  SO--Sew--on we go to a tale of one of my Holiday Traditions----Sausage making.

It all starts with the baby bathtub, my baby bathtub from 59 years ago! Pink enamel heavy tub. My parents only had the best in 1953.  Young families today have it soooo much easier with their babies bath time.  I did use this for my oldest daughter 30 years ago...pink enamel is very slippery with a baby in water, the phrase ' don't throw the baby out with the bathwater' comes to mind.

Why a bathtub? because it works when you have many pounds of ground meat ==we have done 20 --this year I am doing 10 pounds of ground fresh pork [a full fresh ham-or shoulder as many call it]. I had the butcher grind it for me and give me the bones and skin back which is what is used to make the soup for mixing the sausage.  Not a very impressive soup...but tasty in the sausage.  When cooking the bones and such, I do add an onion and a pinch of salt.  Just a pinch.

Back to the bathtub...in goes the ground pork, to that then is added some flour, salt, pepper, ground up onions, and probably the hardest thing these days to find...extra fat. Yes, fat.  Lucky for me, my store understands Fat...but they have to take a day to get it together since most meats today are pre trimmed to very lean, which is good in one way, but we have lost the flavors of old with such lean meat.  So now what does the tub look like---see for yourself--- a bit blurry I am sorry...onions can make you cry.

Now the part that many people don't like to know, this all must be mixed together well...and the only piece of equipment that works the best is the Hand.  And this year, only my right hand could mix this since my left shoulder/hand is not being very helpful. A story for another time. So I mix this all together making sure to blend all the components together well.  Then a cupful at a time of soup until it is the right consistency. Something learned from my mom Maren, who learned from her mom Olga, and so on back in time. Here I have to say, I do not know how my grandmom Olga, did this for so many years for feeding the school kids - 200 of them, 5 days a week.  She made sausage at least every other week that I know of.  No...she had big big meat vats in her cellar...and a big grinder...thankful for 'modern' technology. She fed the kids hot lunches until she retired at I believe, 70 plus. I hope I can do similar into my 70s.

Okay, so it gets mixed together...rests for a bit while you prep the containers for the mixture.  Casings...hog casings...not the most appealing vision, but such a biology lesson or anatomy lesson for all. Taking the stringy, rubbery ribbons and rinsing them, opening them with water is actually fun in a way.  Makes you appreciate how those tummy pains and 'wind' can happen. ;-)  As a medically oriented person, I find anatomy fascinating.  We tend to forget how parts of the body can be so small yet so mighty!

Okay...so take a spoonful of meat mix, cook it up in a frypan -like a burger- and taste test.  Official tester is my hubby...this year we are really good to go.  Of course he groans now, because now he has to get involved in the filling of the casings...a manual task requiring four hands...two to work the grinder/stuffer, one to support and judge size and weight of the links.  But once a year, we do this so we have for our Christmas Feast and the rest is frozen for meals in the New Year.  My mom, sister and I have done this for over 30 years, it's been 10 years since mom helped for the last time.  Every year since, I have gone on the hunt for the perfect meat, casings, fat and onions.  Once purchased, it has to get done right away...and that always means going into the night hours after dinner.
                               So we set up the manual grinder and stuff away our tub full of mix.
In the interest of 'sewing' under that lovely plastic table cover is my cutting table...turns out to be the perfect thing to use.
So we filled the casings and have our Christmas sausage...two pieces weighing over 4 pounds total. Plus another 15 pounds of sausage pieces for meals in the New Year.
Freezer bags filled, weighed and labelled in the end we have 17 pounds of Danish style, simple plain pork sausage. No spare fillers, no extra spices, just a simple meat that when prepared and served with mashed potatoes, apple-sauce, pan gravy if you like, and vegetables is just delicious. 'Bangers and Mash' my dear friend Beverley calls it. One of her favourite meals that she requested every time she visited our home. I think of her every time and I remember my family traditions that make the holidays so special.

Merry Christmas everyone...hope you have your traditions to enjoy this Blessed season.  

Sunday, December 18, 2011

A full fourth week we have this year. Seven more days to hope, to wait, to rejoice, to love.  Anticipation is building for the arrival of Our King and Saviour.  And today, we see the faith and trust, true acceptance of God's will, in the Blessed Virgin Mary.  'Let it be done unto me'.  Can we say that?  I can't..yet I have a son who has placed his life in trust with the Marines.  He also trusts that this is God's will.  Like Mary, I kissed his little toes and hands, the top of his head...I nursed him...and now I am very proud of him for serving his country.

Mothers around the world, love their babies and young children. We all do have a small piece of Mary's trust when we let our sons and daughters leave home for their own lives.  It could not have been at all easy for Mary knowing who her son was.  It isn't easy for me [or you] to believe they will be safe in today's world.

There is a novena prayer for Advent.  It is St. Andrew's novena, which tradition says you say this prayer 15 times a day  until Christmas. It started three weeks ago..I have not been able to pray this 15 times a day [once a waking hour?] But I like the prayer's message...and I say it for my son Bryan...to keep him safe.

Hail and blessed be the hour and moment in which
the Son of God was born of the most pure
Virgin Mary, at midnight, in Bethlehem, in piercing
cold.  In that hour vouchsafe, O my God - To hear 
my prayer and grant my desires, through the 
merits of Our Saviour Jesus Christ, and of 
His Blessed Mother. AMEN

May we all have a wonderful week preparing for great joy and love!